given them.
I needed to know what had happened.
And why.
While the investigation continued, the three of us met with a counselor who specialized in adoption and complicated family histories.
We discussed how to eventually explain the situation to Ellie.
How to answer her questions honestly.
How to avoid making her feel responsible for the adults’ fear.
And how to ensure she understood that nobody was asking her to stop loving anyone.
We agreed that she would remain in her familiar home with Nora and Tom while the legal questions were addressed.
I continued visiting.
Sometimes, I brought coloring books.
Sometimes, we baked cookies.
Sometimes, Ellie just wanted me to sit beside her while she talked about her day.
I treasured every moment.
There were days when grief and happiness existed together so intensely that I didn’t know which one I was feeling.
I’d found my daughter. PlanFamily Trips